You wear the Fixer Mask.

Always helping. Always holding it together.
Always handling it. Even when no one asks.

You’re the one who can walk into chaos and quietly start putting pieces back where they belong.
The crisis gets contained. The problem gets solved. Everyone else exhales.

Being capable became your role.
Being needed became your identity.

But somewhere along the way, constantly managing everyone else’s storms pulled you away from your own center.
You’re so used to holding it all that you almost don’t know who you’d be if you put it down.

This mask didn’t just make you dependable.
Somewhere along the way, it convinced you that “useful” was the only way you were allowed to exist.

 

What This Mask Says About You

You’re the one everyone leans on.
The first call when something goes sideways.

The emotional EMT.

You’ve built your identity around being needed. Solving, soothing, organizing, stepping in.
You’re the one who knows what to do when everyone else freezes.

You anticipate needs before they’re spoken.
You patch the holes no one else even sees.
You’re praised for being “so strong,” “so reliable,” “a lifesaver.”

But behind the helpfulness is a quiet exhaustion.
You wonder who you’d be if you weren’t the one holding everyone else up.
You long for someone who can read your needs with the same precision you give to theirs.

You don’t actually want to stop caring.
You just want to stop disappearing under the weight of everyone else’s lives.

 

The Hidden Cost

The Fixer Mask feels noble, but it quietly robs you of your own needs.

You stay in cycles of over-functioning and under-receiving.
Boundaries blur.

Resentment builds.

Then gets buried so you can keep being “the reliable one.”

You’re capable of saving everyone else, but your own healing keeps getting postponed. There’s always one more fire to put out, one more person to take care of, one more crisis only you can handle.

This mask doesn’t just protect others. It protects you from sitting with your own unmet needs, grief, and desires.
And it keeps you from ever feeling truly supported.

 

It’s Not Your Fault—But It Is Your Time

You learned early that safety came from usefulness.
That love was earned by effort.
That chaos was calmed by competence.

Being the one who handled it made you valuable.
Being strong meant you didn’t get left behind.

But now?
The survival script that once protected you is quietly draining you.

It’s time to unlearn the story that says
you only matter when you’re managing everything.

You’re allowed to be held.
You’re allowed to be supported.
You’re allowed to be more than the one who knows how to fix it all.

You don’t have to earn your worth through self-sacrifice anymore.
This is your invitation to step out of constant crisis mode
and into a life where you get to be tended to, too.

If you’re ready to stop over-functioning for everyone else 
and finally stand in your own power without needing to prove your worth. This is where it begins.

Join the Mini Mask Removal Series and start uncovering the truth beneath the Fixer.

You don’t have to earn love through usefulness anymore.
It’s time to be valued simply for being you.

Strip the Mask™ The Fixer – Deep Reveal Edition

$47.00 USD

Take the mask off. Reclaim your identity.

Strip the Mask™ Mini Experience

A 4-week identity deprogramming lab for high-achieving women who are done carrying everyone else’s life on their backs just to feel needed.

Inside, you’ll:

  • Discover what your Fixer mask is really protecting

  • Pinpoint the belief system that keeps you over-giving and under-receiving

  • Deactivate the over-functioning loop with a science-backed release ritual

  • Uncover the first clear signal of who you are beyond other people’s emergencies

This isn’t a course to collect.
It’s a commitment to clarity.

Start the work.
Collect the data.
Decide your next move with your whole self in the room. Not just the part that knows how to fix everything.

Start the Unmasking

Want extra support?

Add the Release the Fixer Mask Hypnosis Audio,
created by certified master hypnotist Jan Ferguson (my dad!),
to gently retrain your nervous system to feel safe
receiving support. Not just providing it.

Listen as you wind down at night or after a day of “fixing,”
so your body can learn that rest is allowed,
even when something is still unfinished.

You don’t have to hold it all alone anymore.

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